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How do you get rid of those negative thought after you discovered your spouse affair?
Mgodat
It depends on who you are and your beliefs. If you are a spiritual person look to God. Ask him for guidance and peace and to strengthen your relationship.
Another way to to just talk to your spouse and clear the air. Sit down and agree on not to argue and not to get angry with each other but figure out what caused the affair. If necessary, you can go to a Marriage Counsoler to help guide you and your spouse through this difficult time.
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Is your spouse cold and distant to everyone after his affair including your children?
if he had an affair, then he shouldn't still be your "spouse", in my opinion.
How will you feel if your spouse compared you to his affair partner?
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
How do you begin healing after your spouse affair?
slash the tires of the car belonging to your spouse.
How long does an extramarital affair last?
Usually as long as it takes for one of the other party in a marriage, to start suspecting and discovering the affair, which generally leads to separation and divorce. The affair, then may continue but is no longer called an affair but a relationship or a concubinage. ANSWER: It depends if the spouse can keep his or her affair as long as he or she wanted it to go. But in reality there are some who still continued even though the affair is been discovered.
What can you do if my spouse who had an affair still commincates with the other?
Nothing. It is strange that your spouse still communicates with the person she had an affair with, but aslong as it is just words and not actions, it is still acceptable.
Why is it when the flashback of spouse affair she feels like it just happen yesterday?
When a man cheats on his wife he has broken the bond of trust and has deeply hurt his wife. She is hurt because she trusted him and thought he loved her and she is hurt and angry over the thought of her spouse sneaking out and having an affair making her look like a fool. That memory will always be with the wife, but, if they try at their marriage it may be saved if the cheating spouse is willing to know a good thing when he has it. People who cheat on their spouses always lose in the end.
Why can't we blame the spouse from their affair instead of the other woman?
You should be able to blame your spouse fully, since he/she allgedly cheated on you, whether the person they had the affair with realized it or not.
Why i Had affair got divorced?
If you had an affair, your spouse must have had a very broken heart, and can not love you again, or trust you. what you do for pleasure with someone other than your spouse causes your spouse a great deal of pain, that's why it is usually frowned upon.
What can you do if your spouse isn't remorseful after his affair?
Realize by calling it an affair theres already a negative marital, religious, and social connotation involved. It's always in your best interest to have a spouse with at least similar views, especially about sexuality. With that being said it sounds as though you may be more attached to him emotionally than he is you. My advice; Find some one else.
Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
Will you ever feel that security and peace that you once had from your spouse after his affair?
Maybe but not really. I has to do with the way you are and the way he/she asks after the affair.
How do you know if your marriage will survive after your spouse affair?
You don't. You have to make an educated guess based on your knowledge of your spouse's personality.
