How do you get your computer-addicted fiance to play in the real world if he spends 55 hours a week on his PC and he spends 10 minutes a day with you and he is irritable about that?

Is this a riddle? Here's what I would do...find another fiance. You aren't tied to him or his problems, and you will never change him. Only he can change himself, and he has to desire to do that. Good luck.