How do you know if a guy really loves you and you are not just a visa for him to come and live in your country?
Depending on how good an actor he is, you may not know. You
might try to suggest that you move to his home instead of him
coming here and see what he says, this might give you the answer
you need. Or suggest that you wait a while to see how the
relationship progresses, if he truly loves you he will wait, if not
he will lose interest and move on. You would feel it in your heart.
He would do and say things that assure you that you are not a free
ticket to America. He would prove to you that you are very
important to you and be making steps to insure a future for the two
of you. Has he brought any of his money here and put it in a joint
account. Do you know lots about his past and family. What is he
doing to bring funds in for the two of you. Has he made any major
purchases to make your lives more comfortable. If you are in his
future he would be doing things now, not just waiting for a visa.
==Answer from Bandalerro== You Don't Know!! I'm a guy and there is
really no way of telling, it will have to be a risk you take. It
all depends on how much you