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How do you know if an abuser is sincere about changing their ways?
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∙ 12y ago
He/she probably is, but is it possible? Most people who become physically abusive are unable to manage their anger and if they successfully suppress it for a while, it will just make the next event more explosive.
You may think that you love your abuser and you may think that he/she loves you. But the simple fact is, NOBODY who truly loves someone would ever want to bring harm. In general, the more the abuser tries to suppress his/her behavior, the more likely it is that there will be enough anger in the NEXT event that it could cause serious harm or even death.
Leave the relationship now. Get away to a safe place and if you still want to pursue the relationship demand that your abuser seek counseling. You can even attend the session if the counselor thinks it's a good idea. But never be alone with your abuser until/unless the counselor thinks it's safe.
Without therapy, abusive events only get worse, they never get better.
Most cities have women's shelters where you can go to get away from your abuser. If you're female, go there and stay for a while. Talk to other victims and some of the counselors. Getting away from the problem and in touch with others who have been through it can help you gain perspective.
You cannot change your abuser so save yourself.
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If you unintentionally make your spouse afraid one time during an argument Should you be labelled an abuser considering it was not intended and an Abuser knowingly repeats his Abusive ways?
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
Where can a person find examples of sincere ways to write a thank you note?
One can find examples of sincere ways to write a thank you note at the write express website.
What are the ways in which you cannot be heavily involved with an abuser but want to keep the relationship?
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.
Is it bad to go around talking about your abuser and what they did to you?
If you are fearful of speaking out about your abuse, find legal ways to keep the abuser from harming you.On the very contrary. Sharing what you went through can help you achieve closure. Secrecy is the abuser's weapon!No. Exposure is protection.
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The adjective sincere has only one spelling, sincere (frank, candid, honest, open).Words with similar spelling include censure (rebuke, condemnation) and sinecure (a position with benefits or powers, but usually no responsibilities).
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