How do I know if he's cheating on me?

Answer 1

Just an observation about the post that mentioned at first they might go on about how much they do NOT like the other person. I have found this to be true. Often when someone is attracted to someone they can try and not like the person by trying to convince themselves and those around them just how undesriable they really are. You 'feel' it in your heart. But you KNOW it in your spirt. Ask him and look in his eyes, you know when he's lieing. I agree, we do 'feel' it...our 'gut feel' really works...we get this nagging feeling that something is not right, or unusual...you see this in his many actions. He would talk about an officemate...first he would criticize her, like how bad her hairdo is, how she looks and walks like a man or a horse, how very few friends she has in the office, how she could dare to go somewhere alone without her family...then later on he would appreciate her, like how good she did in her tasks, how fair her complexion is, how good a wife she is to her husband (yes, if she's married!), that despite the fact that he knew she kicks her daughter when she's angry and how impolite her children are!...later on you would catch some text messages between the two of them which are not like the types a boss would send to or receive from his employee. You would 'feel' that something so unofficial is going on between the two of them. You would listen to brief conversations on the phone and hear how sweetly he calls her name and how low his voice would be. He would keep his phone inside his pocket all the time, or with him inside the bathroom when he takes showers--when he used to just leave it around, now he keeps it! Then you would then hear from other people that the two of them are spending much time with each other in the office, oblivious to many people walking in and out or pass them. Change in lifestyle, yes, he becomes conscious of his looks and his clothes and you get to learn from the girl that they share the same health regimen..oh, it goes on and on and on...he may deny it and even fly in rage that you're "accusing" him of it...but what is in your heart?

Answer 2

theres actually many ways to tell.he could give you dumb reasons for not being able to be with you like oh my great aunt Natalie is coming into town or sumtin that really makes no sense or if u catch him with another girl but nothing serious happens just holding hands or he has his arm around her and u ask who that was nd if he studers while sayin oh uh umm sh she shes my umm distant cousin. yeah no shes not lol. also if u ask him something and he gets it wrong ex: so my b day is coming up. him:i knw i got u something awesome(wen they forget ur bday the first thing they mention is that they got u a present) aww really wut is it (theyll studer and and then be like oh then it wnt be a surprise) and i think ima stop here cuzz its kinda long so yeah hope this helped :D

Answer 3

Well, he might gve you a nick name like babydoll or sweetie so he doesn't get your names mixed up. he'll suddenly be very busy most nights and he'll get phone calls and he won't say a name or you'll call him and he won't say your name. He'll just say two or three word sentaces and he won't tell you he loves you before he hangs up.

Answer 4

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First they say, listen to your gut. If you sense something isn't quite right, it probably isn't. Just start checking things without him knowing. Does he go where he says he is? Follow or call. Check phone numbers/messages/emails/notes/voicemail. If he gives you a story, check with someone else and see if their versions coincide. If he is unavailable at times and you don't know where he is, be suspect. Start looking for pictures or other telltale clues around his house. Strange hairbrush or something another girl left? Makeup on his clothes? Strange hairs in the bed? Look, everywhere, even to see if something is hidden somewhere. If he tries to keep you away from certain areas or things, that's a red flag. Bounce your feelings off your friends and get their opinion. Don't drive yourself crazy. If he is lieing, you will find out if you look. And if you catch him, don't listen to his lies and be in denial. You're just setting yourself for more heartache. He probably won't change. These guys have intimacy issues and need a therapist. You're better off finding someone who will treat you right.

TRY THIS

Some ways to know are...

Get the Ex girlfriends cell phone number, house phone number, home address, work address, email address, where she goes to school. Any information you can.

to find this you have to snoop through his stuff and write down odd numbers you find in his call log. then proceed (later when hes not around) to call these numbers and find out who they are. After you know her number you can then contact a ROGERS/BELL/Telus dealer and pretend you are the ex gf and get all her home information.

Then after you have gotten all this information you hold onto it in a safe spot and work as an investigator to catch your bf.

Rent a car, and follow him. Find out if he says the truth. read his mail. Check his internet HISTORY! most importantly DONT let him know you are snooping or he will delete the information you need. Even if you find something, dig up more dirt so you have more on him.

Answer 5

Hi! Veronica101 to the help xD. Okay TRUST Me I've been in this situations before. And its' not pretty. Lol. Okay so if you want to know if he is cheating on you, you have to do the main awsome word "Observe". Take notes when he isn't with you in the school halls or anywhere else. Okay...

1. Think to yourself "Why do I think my bf is cheating on me?"

2. Dont be afaid to secretly fallow him in the school halls or anywhere else. BUT! If you see him flirting with another girl OR hugs his "Girl FRIEND" A tight hug, then its a possibilty that 89% he IS CHEATING on you :(

3. Guys are stupid. Lol TRUST ME. Mmk next step is the fallowing. The other awsome word is "FIND OUT" Get the inside scoop from your bff's are someone you know you can trust who is close. And see your re-sults.

IF HE ISN'T THEN...

I would keep my eye on him ;) Just in case something "HAPPENS"

IF HE IS....

Later dude, ditch him. find a new fish. And some guys DO treat women with respect. ------Glad I could help :)

<33 Veronica

hey jus want to knw hw do we actually knw if a partner is cheating on you?

Answer 6

We can't never justify if our husband will hurt us or even betrayed us. I could tell you ways or sign how you can tell if your husband is cheating on you. But realistically you are the only one that can predict. All you have to do is watch his reaction, the way he behave himself when his around with you. He could also act uncomfortable around you. Just pay attention if he is acting different.

Answer 7

it will be obvious he will seem to be happy all of a sudden, if he is sleeping with somone else he may make excuses like he is going to be late or somthing that he never does, look out for things like bills like things you did not receive or know about or check on his emails to see who has been talking to

Answer 8

You will get clues:

1) he's getting cold and trying to make excuses

2) he puts his phone into silent mode and locks it with security codes

3) he closes the browsers when you pop in while he is reading mails or viewing Facebook, etc.

4) if you are living together, there are times that he comes home late and he will not answer your calls during those hours because he is doing something private

5) he will look too busy doing things which he does not normally do

6) he gets easily irritated for nothing especially when you start a conversation that does not interest him

7) he comes home tired and will just want to sleep

8) you can feel it

Answer 9

Hey Sweetie, I hope he's not.... however.. 1) Slight hesitations to answers.
2) His cell phone history is always deleted/he protects his cell phone from you.
3) He avoids answering questions directly at times, and uses affection as a ruse.
4) He avoids contact when he gets home, until after getting washed up.
5) There seems to be less money these days.
6) Are you very trusting? Do you suspect it? Then he probably is! Woman's intuition right.


Good luck and be careful, he might not be protecting himself with her!


-Matt