How do you know whether your husband is your soul mate?

why would you marry someone that you thought may not be your soulmate? That's the first question you have to ask yourself and to be honest with you no one knows who there soulmate is and your not going to find out until much later soul mate means that he is the bone or flesh as stated in the bible of your bone and flesh so if you feel like you and your husband have a relationship where he is the head and your tail scenario and he is being your help mate and you in turn his then you found him other than stop questioning the soul mate thing it's just an theory people come up for a person that's found their match or equal in a spouse and maybe you have found your mate in your spouse just stop reading so much into if he treats you like you wanted be treated and doesn't disrespect you then hey I would say you got a winner