How do you know your husband is having an extra marital affair?

Answer 1

YOU CAN SMELL HIM FOR ODORS THAT ARE UNUSUAL.

WHY DO YOU THINK THIS? HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN THINKING OF THIS?

YOU CAN ASK HIM OR HIRE PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR FOR A FEE.

Answer2: The best thing you can do is sit down in a calm, dignified and non confrontational manner with your mate and tell him/her why you feel there is a third person in your relationship. Talk about your feelings and get everything out in the open and ask, are you having an affair. Wish you the best.

Answer 2

Well first off, let me tell you, that if you haven't actually caught him/her in the act ...then you cant prove it! I know this from experience...But women are very very very smart, and intuition and feelings are a great way to tell if its true or not.

I am telling you that if you feel it inside you, then there IS a reason!

That's probably the only proof you're gonna get unless he fesses up to it or like I said you catch him in the act...I know right now that my Sig. other has cheated and probably is cheating right now, and I just know from intuition and things he does and feelings I get from him. I am now trying to figure out a way out of this relationship, which is very very hard when you've invested so much time and love in someone!..I know that I deserve better, but love him extremely.

I hope you do whats right and hope this has helped.

well your husband is going to show it by the way he starts to treat you.

Answer 3

There are always signs. Ir's not as if you think that you have the best relationship ever and suddenly he has an affair. Usually, they will suddenly have to stay late at work or start spending more time out "with the guys." You first clue is that you suspect that he's cheating. That isn't a normal concern in a relationship. Is he acting secretive or paying more attention to his phone or computer than usual? Has he purchase new underwear when he used to not care how old and ratty his underwear was? Is he doing more grooming than usual...like he's trying to look nice for someone?