If you are able to leave the house even to grocery shop, then one night pack a few things and hide them outside. Have a good plan! If he is physically abusive to you find out where your local Women's Center is and they will help you and keep you safe. When he is sleeping (don't even both to get dressed, but put a jacket on you and dress later in the car) through your bags in the car (take a taxi to a friends) and get out of that house! Once you leave there is no going back! Good luck Marcy
If you can leave him - do it now.
You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
You reach out for help, and you go.
The person doing the abusing is always responsible for that abuse. Abusive people always place the responsibility on someone else, and they always will if they can get away with it. If a situation becomes physical, it's always time to leave.
Discuss it with your husband to decide if brother should be asked to leave; or if you are somewhere other than your home, if you and your husband should leave. No one has the right to interfere with your relationship with your husband (other than an abusive situation).
Leave this person. there is NO HELP for him. See a lawyer today.
If he is that out of control, you may have to be the one leaving.
---- Call the police, if the abuse continues, then leave him and never go back. ----
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
call the cops, he'll be gone a long time
File for separation, and change the locks; if he makes trouble, call the police.