Unfortunately you cannot always make that happen. You cannot force someone to feel something that they don't feel. You can express the pain you felt physically and emotionally during the abuse. But that is about it. You cannot force someone to feel sorry for something if they aren't sorry. It would make a lot of things easier if you could though but it is just something that your abuser will have to figure out for him/her self.
He never did!
hurting her teacher when she was being taught
Regret is a feeling. If you feel regret, and you probably will sometimes, you have no real control over that. You can repress a feeling but you cannot change it. It is always ok to feel whatever you really feel, even when it would be a bad idea to act on the feeling. We often tend to idealize the past, feel nostalgic, forget the abuser's bad traits and offending conduct and remember the "good old times".
If you're depressed, yes. I did it and I regret it. Do everything you have to not to hurt yourself though.
tell him straight up....let him know that every word that comes out of their mouth is hurting you one way or another....physical abuse isn't the only one...prove it to them
Show him/her how much you love him/her and how much you regret your actions. This will not only show her/him that how much you want him/her as it will also show you how much that person still loves you back, it will allow you to make certain decisions depending on the case.
tell him or record it and make him listen to it
to make yourself regret what you did 1 think about what you did and 2 ask other people if it was right .
Yes they do because that's when they feel good. They need someone to bully because they don't know how to deal with negative situations that occur in their lives. They enjoy hurting the partner because it makes them feel big...even for a moment.
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
You should not wish revenge against an abuser, this will only make your abuser furious and cause them to harm you more than they already have. To stop an abuser you need to talk to the authorities and if you are a teenager or younger person that is being abuse you need to talk to a trusted adult for help.
It depends what you did before it started hurting there's medicine you can buy