How do you make the other woman know she is hurting the wife?

Answer 1

• A woman that is cheating with a wife's husband (called a mistress) generally has no moral values and either needs someone in their life to constantly tell them how good looking they are while being spoiled by the married man; is a gold digger; or a needy person who cannot handle commitments and is out for support and some exciting times. It is up to the wife to confront the husband who created the mess in the first place and not try to deal with the mistress who could care less how the wife feels. The other woman always feels she has it wrapped up that she is a better prospect for the married man and believes he will choose her over his wife, but thankfully, often the husband if pressed will come back to the wife and leave his mistress. A married man seldom marries his mistress and is using her as a sex object. Often the married man will grow weary of his mistress (that's his pattern) and either go back to his wife or continue to have affairs throughout his marriage. The wife should not show fear with the prospect of her husband leaving her, but stand her ground; face him and tell him the facts are he stops the affair or the wife will see him in divorce court and the one stipulation she should make with him is that the two go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with any marriage problems that should arise. A wife that cries and begs her husband to stay only pushes him towards the mistress and the mistress is the spider in the web ready and waiting. The wife should get tough and let her husband know that she is independent enough to not need him and he can have his mistress, but she is not going to enable his cheating. Most men fold up like a deck of cards and the few that pack their bags and head for the mistress find that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence and he may well come back begging to be forgiven and then the wife has full control. Women who are victims of a cheating husband should know that life does not end after divorce and many women remarry and are happily married the second time around. The wife should say to her husband, 'I'm tying a big blue bow to your butt; slapping a stamp on your backside and mailing you off to your mistress and she can put up with your antics.'
• ANSWER:
• I agree with Ms. Marcy but mine will be different. When it comes to other woman even it takes two to tango, the mistress or the other woman can not be the one who is hurting the wife, even if she is sleeping with the married man. With all these, it got to be the married man who are the one who is hurting his wife or family. If the wife finds out yes she will think that it was the other woman who stole the husband away from her, but unfortunately it is the husband who did all of this and the wife didn't put a gun on his head so he can have another life away from his wife. If the married man didn't want to see his wife hurt, all he can do is never do it or maybe just divorce her so that way the pain that will linger to those who got betrayed will not be as bad as it supposed to be..