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After you have be betrayed there will be a harbouring of feelings such as resentment, hurt, as well as trust issues. Counselling involving both of you if you are both willing would be very effective for your type of situation.

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Your husband thinks that what he did to betrayed you is not a big deal. Most men will think and solve their problem through logic, which it doesn't help them. It will be hard for you to move on knowing that your husband never careless if having affairs was only his past time of enjoyment. It's time for you to really think if you want to be happy alone or be miserable being with your husband. Think about it.

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Good for you! It's better late than never. It's scary as we get older to get out there and be independent, but once you do and live on your own for a few months you'll feel like a caged bird that has been set free. There are all sorts of great men out there looking for good women. Most are widowers and some divorced. You are stronger than you think. Perhaps you could get a job, or volunteer. This way you meet other friends and if you like, some nice single men (or divorced or widowed.) You probably aren't in any hurry to end up with a man right now just after what you went through. I was married before to a real womanizer and I never saw the signs (or didn't want to see them.) I was only married to him for 3 1/2 years and consider myself lucky. I don't share my men! It was tough at first, but in a few months I felt great, and I changed jobs, met some new friends and had a blast. It gave me a chance to find out who I was and realize how strong and independent I was. I never regretted leaving my first husband. Eventually, I met the odd man and dated, and finally, one of my good male buddies introduced me to my present husband and we have been married for 33 years. You go girl! You deserve some life. Good luck God Bless Marcy

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