How to not be werid?

Answer 1

It is hard to know what you mean by "weird." Styles and the attitudes of society change, and what was considered odd at one time can become commonplace. For example, American Buddhists were considered pretty strange fifty years ago, but now Buddhism is a major US religion.

The most important thing is to be true to yourself. However, it is possible to be so true to ourselves that we fail to integrate well with the interests of others -- especially when we are young.

We can begin to work on that by consciously paying attention to and learning about the things that interest our peers. We can take a look at how we dress, and slowly -- and I emphasize slowly -- become more mainstream. (We can do this while keeping our own "look," but without dressing in such a way that it labels us as really different.)

In short, we can become a bit more like others without giving up the things that make us unique and important in our own way. It's hard, especially if you're shy, and it's best to do a little bit at a time, see how things go, then move onward. Be prepared for some rejection -- perhaps even some ridicule. Other people are uncomfortable when their notions about someone have to change.

This writer knows exactly where you're coming from, because he had to do the same thing.

By stop doing stupid stuff or crazy stuff by being plain and boring.

Answer 2

I assure you, you're not weird! There are 6 billion people in this world and none of them are you. Because you're alive and exist should be proof that your uniqueness is what the world needs. It's evident. Now, if you're doing immoral, illegal or inappropriate things to yourself and others, you may want to seek professional help.

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No one is weird. We are all different, and what may seem weird to one person or group may seem normal or acceptable to others. People should celebrate, not ridicule, the unique aspects of other individuals. Of course, if someone really wants to be a part of a certain clique or group, the only way to do so is to conform to the standards of the group. People associate with others of like interests and views.

Answer 3

Not to worry; if you are a teen, you will soon outgrow your weird years. Meanwhile, concentrate on what you need for your future, keep busy with your responsibilities, set goals for where you want to be next, and try to enjoy what you can for your stage in life. Each stage has its own struggles and delights, try to concentrate on the latter.

One of the best ways for anyone of any age to avoid concentrating on your inadequacies is to step out of yourself by doing something for someone else; help a family member, a neighbor, or classmate; volunteer for something at school, church or any community agency. A feeling of accomplishment accompanied by a little self worth can speed up the passing of the weird stage pretty quickly.

Answer 4

You can't because everyone is weird in their own way. But if you really want to know, just don't do things that "cool" people think is weird.