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This particular aspie has ego problems.


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I agree to an extent. A thing with a person with Asperger's is that they always consider themselves to be correct and others At Fault. They have great consideration of "trust" - and if others do something wrong (in their opinion), they are betraying the person. Another thing is their sense of honour. They'll have taboos against many things such as swearing, and will bitterly hate anyone that gets them so angry that they swear or verbally insult/abuse someone else. Therefore, if he got angry because of something you said, he'll feel bad in the fact that he hurt you (either mentally or physically) but will not admit to his mistake or may even feel angry that you provoked him into hurting you.


Arguments are never good for us Asperger's. If possible diffuse the situation, if not then be prepared to be mistrusted for weeks, if not years as we have incredibly long memories. Heck, I can still remember an incident for feeling angry at a person 3 years ago - and they've completely forgot, which makes me angrier.

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Q: How do you reconcile with a friend with Asperger's Syndrome who broods over anything you do wrong for months and is unwilling to apologize for his actions even if he is the one at fault?
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