How do you ruin a girls life who ruined your whole school year by ditching you and becoming very popular while also being extremely fake and she stole your best friends?

Answer 1

First, I would not recommend trying to ruin her life. I'll tell you why. It might feel good at the time, but then it will come back to hurt you later on. You will also be acting just like her-- and do you really want to do that? Another thing to consider, regarding losing your friends. If you are talking about middle school or high school, you are talking about kids who are often immature. They may have seemed like your friends, but if they were really your friends, nobody would be able to steal them away. A good friend is loyal and does not believe gossip about you.

So, while this is a painful and unfair experience, the good news is that it's temporary (her popularity will be temporary too-- wait and see). You will soon meet better people and make better friends. It may not seem like it now, but it will happen. Right now, you may really want revenge, but that never works out well. Fortunately, the school year is almost over, and soon you won't have to be around any of these kids. So, focus on keeping busy. Do some volunteer work. Learn something new, like a new language. Take an interesting course that lets you be creative and introduces you to new people. But don't come down to her level and don't become bitter. I survived middle school and high school (I was bullied and teased a lot) and I ended up with some very good friends and a good career. So will you!