How do you save a divorce at the age of ten?

Answer 1

You don't because you really don't know the facts of what has happened to your parents. You only think you know, but there are things between two people that no one else can know. At 10 there are adult things that you can't understand, but DO NOT think it is your fault. Many children think they are the cause of a divorce. YOU ARE NOT. Take my word for this, but you also can not stop it. The best you can do is not dislike or hate one or the other of your parents, try to know that it most likely can not be stopped, and your life will change. Life is about change and what happens to us is what we do with the change. You may feel angry at one or both of your parents and that is OK you have suffered a loss. You may feel sad and that is also OK, but what we do with our feelings is what is important. There are stages that people go through and you will be angry, sad, lonely, and feel a loss. This is natural. Some days you may not want to do school work, but you can not just think about this and forget the things you need to do. If you need to talk find someone you can talk to. Ask your parents to help you by letting you go to counseling. The more you work through this the better off you will be in the future. Just remember life isn't always easy, but you can get through it.