Don't understand your question. Are you asking how to gap the plugs. The proper gap is listed in your owner's manual and under the hood on a placard. Most plugs come pre-gapped. To check and adjust the gap, use a tool designed for this purpose. Just ask the parts store for a plug gap tool.
NGK Iridium spark plugs are fine for your 1996 Honda Accord.
where are the plugs located
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i change the spark plugs on my car but they keep popping out
Screwed into the head.
It has 6 spark plugs. One for each cylinder.
remove the spark plug wires one at a time and unscrew the plugs
As for NGK or Denso OEM spark plugs.
Screwed into the head or heads on a V6.
They are right there on the top of the engine.
In the head at the end of the spark plug wires.
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