How do you talk to a girl you like and don't know in Middle School?

Answer 1

by being friendly.

The last answer was :by being friendly But I know that that is WAAAY easier said than done! Why don't you try this: Deliberately drop your bag when they walk past and make sure it's open so a couple of things fall out. If they stop to help you, you can be all like "thanks so much.. I'm such a clutz! I think we're in the same --- class together. I'm ---, what's your name?" If they don't stop to help, then pick ur stuff up quickly and laugh at yourself a little, then casually go into step with them and be like "embarrassing, huh?!" If they smile / respond in anyway, take your chance! Say "your in my class right? I was wondering if you understood the --- homework, I'm totally bad at ---!!" They might be able to help u, and if not, u will know that u have something in common! Sorry these suggestions are only for when you're meeting new people, but if u already kinda know them, make an effort to attemp conversation and say hi when you pass them. You might find it easier talking to them via social networking - Facebook, iMessage etc. good luck x

Answer 2

TRUST ME THIS IS WORTH TO READ. STRAIGHT OUT ANSWER

PUBLISHED (3/20/12)

(Im a guy that goes to High School); I have great experience with girls and I am happy to answer this straight out for you. Trust me, follow these steps. They are going to work.

1. Greet her say hi or hello or hey, but don't act like your scared, act like you would greet to your friends in a formal way, not all goofy.

2. Listen to her and give her eye contact. Don't think too much just go with the flow with your conversation. If you think too much trust me you will stutter.

3. Never show your fear of showing up to a girl and talking to a girl that you like. You have to "ACT" like you know what you are doing.

4. Hang out with her. And get to know her.

Im guaranteed, if you do that to a girl with those steps. You will likely get a girl to like you. Keep doing step 4. after you've done step 1,2, and 3.

Answer 3

Getting to know her:

First, you should find ways to be around her more. Try joining a club she's in, or sit next to her in class. Of course, be sure not to appear as if you're constantly following her everywhere. Girls can feel uncomfortable or intimidated if a guy "breathes down their neck" all the time.

When you walk by her in the hallway, acknowledge her with a quick, kind smile. Look straight into her eyes; do not focus on her body but rather her face. Girls are much less likely to truly appreciate a guy that they feel only appreciates their body.

During lunch period or in the hallways, so-called "small talk" can come naturally, so don't stress too much on starting a conversation. Some nice excuses you may have to talk to her would be side-by-side lockers or a class project, or perhaps you need some homework help. And during those types of interactions, you can take the occasional opportunity to learn more about her.

When you're around her, refrain from vulgar jokes and sexual innuendos. Girls will not respond well to a guy that degrades them, even if it's a "joke." For example, I once knew a guy in my local library's teen council that I was beginning to warm up to, and he had admitted at an earlier point that he had a crush on me, but at some point while we were all lifting and carrying boxes he said, "Step back and let the guys do the lifting. Girls should just stay in the kitchen." That did not sit well with me and the other girls there and I had a hard time looking at him the same again. Sexism is a huge turn-off, as are racism, homophobia, etc. Keep your jokes clean and respectful. Also, pay mind to your "crowd." If you think that the guys you typically hang out with are generally crass and rude, she might not like being around you or them during, say, lunch. The kind of guy you are around your friends is important to how she views you. Consider if your friends make perverted or just frankly offensive remarks a lot. As a girl I additionally suggest you never refer to her, or any other girls, as "chick." Ever. Girls aren't fond of the term, 99% of us see it as offensive and very derogatory of guys to say.

Make sure to pay attention to her interests. If she tells you about a particular hobby she enjoys, don't shoot it down immediately as "boring." Girls want to know that you care about what they have to say and that you're not only thinking about yourself and your own interests all the time.

Do your best to be a gentleman. A lot of guys in high school and college are under the impression that girls like bad boys, and while this may be true, they often interpret it the wrong way; girls do like a guy that takes risks once in a while and plays by his own rules, but that does not mean they want to be with a guy that treats them badly. Hold open doors for her, pull out chairs, etc. Defend her in arguments if you need to, and make sure to step in if anyone (particularly other guys) are offending, harassing, or intimidating her. Respect her personal space. A lot of high school guys don't seem to understand how unsolicited advances toward a girl can lose her favor. In fact, they often delude themselves that it will actually get her to like them. (It won't.) Try to stay about three feet from her, and remember that there is a line between being confident and being full of yourself. (Avoid the latter, but exude the first.) Periodically you can sneak in a non-sexual, friendly touch only once you two have grown considerably close, like swatting something from her hair or arm. But do not touch her sexually, not even jokingly (as an extension to not making sexual jokes). Because so few high school guys are respectful nowadays, girls are quick to assume that it is your intention to harass or assault her even with a gesture that you don't see as being creepy but simply a joke.

Continue with these smaller interactions for a few weeks. If you reach a point where you feel that she's on a solid friendly basis with you, try asking her to hang out with you somewhere withsome of her friends so as not to pressure her into a date right away. Determine then whether she's really gotten to know you and likes you (as a friend, right now) and gather up your courage sooner or later and politely ask her out to dinner, just the two of you.

Regarding appearance:

Try to avoid wearing pants that sag or super baggy shirts. Don't change your general style, but keep in mind that girls are most likely to be attracted to a guy, and not to mention feel safer around a guy, that wears clothes that fit him and don't appear punk or trashy.

Shower regularly and use perfume and deodorant. Girls feel much more secure around boys that smell good and appear groomed.

Additional tips: Don't bring up controversial topics. Don't express dislike for her friends or family. Never overstep physical boundaries. Keep her secrets; do not tell a soul.

Answer 4

First, you need to get to know her. If she's in any of your classes, then great! If not, it's going to be a little harder.

If she's one (or more) of your classes:

Get to know her! Make casual conversation about homework, teachers etc. and as you get to know what she likes talk about that. Maybe you'll find something in common!

If she's not in any of your classes:

Try and talk to her at any avalible opportunity. Maybe she sits with someone you know at lunch, and therefore can casually sit there too? If you pass her in the corridor smile. See her alone? Go up and chat.

Making a move:

Once you know her, and are friends, wait till she mentions something she enjoyes (maybe something you like too?) and ask her something like; "That sounds cool...maybe we could go and do that sometime." Or, if she's talking about school, maybe a subject she's finding tricky; "Yeah, I was a bit confused about that too. Do you want to maybe study together?" She will then sugest a date, or say that she's busy etc. If she says no, DO NOT PANIC! She probrably isn't ready for a relationship or doesn't think she knows you well enough yet. Do not ignore her after that. Still talk to her now and then, keep the friendship.

I hope this helps you! Good luck (:

Answer 5

Just go up and say hi i know it feels akward but its a good start ohh compliment her helps a lot i promise