How do you tell a girl you love her when you know if you tell her she won't let you see her and you don't want that to happen?

Answer 1

It appears that you may have said something before. It's possible she thinks of you as a good friend, or perhaps she has been badly hurt before in another relationship and isn't into trusting men these days. The best thing to do is either get on with your life and see other girls. Perhaps if you don't make yourself too available to her and be more independent she may come to realize she does care a lot about you. It's a chance, but one you should take to see her reaction and stop wasting your precious time. If you don't want to do that then don't see her quite as often and body language can say a lot and the word "love" doesn't have to come into your conversations with her. She may need some time, but if she is dating other guys, I'd go out and date other girls and still be her friend. Good luck Marcy

Answer 2

You first have to find out who she likes first. If you don't know how to, ask her friends who know can keep a secret and are friends with you. If it's not you, try and let it go, move on.