by telling them that you don't feel right and you just want to be friends or you can right a letter and go to dinner
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You can tell them something like, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you, I love you and would never intentionally do anything to hurt you. I hope you can forgive me".
If a person looses love in a relationship you should tell him / her how you feel. Being honest is what you should have so others will not be hurt.
just be honest with them the person will love your honesty and you
No matter how nicely you tell the person that still loves you it will hurt their heart, but, it is better to be honest. You could tell them the true by either saying you have fallen out of love or, you find you feel you are more friends than lovers. It will hurt the person, but at least you have the fortitude to tell them and not just reject them without a word and move on. That's maturity!
Then you can tell them if they are available. If they are with someone else then it would be best to not share your feelings for that person out loud. You will be the one that is hurt in the end, unfortunately. Good luck!
Gently, at least at first. If he persists (keeps bugging you) then you have to be more firm. tell him that even though you understand he loves you, love is very individual and you don't share the love of him that he has for you. Tell him you are a caring person and don't wish to hurt him, but you can't lie and say you love him when that is not true.
just tell him/her that you do not feel for him/her the same way that you did before (if you did love him/her in the past)... an that you dont want to hurt his/hers feelings an that you still respect him as a person(if you do) an that you jus grew apart from him/her ..
tell them that you love the person you like and that you dont mean to hurt them ! You just have stronger feelings for the person you love ! You could tell lies and let them get really hurt when they find out. You could tell them the truth and let them duke it out. You could ask yourself if they are really in love with you. This sounds like a crock - they may have shown interest but love as in love at first sight etc is probably your own wishful thinking. So basically there isn't a problem in telling the other two.</P>
No, you should never tell an abuser you love them and if you think you love them then you need psychological counseling because abusing a person is not about love. You don't hurt the ones you love! Get out of this relationship while you still can!
Tell them what your feeling about that person and let them know that your trying to help them not hurt them.
yes
you have to tell them the truth.
They won't . . . if they really love you.