This would depend on the quality of the relationship you have with your husband, and whether the child was conceived after marriage or before.
If the child was conceived within the period of your marriage, was there any 'cause' for your unfaithfulness? How long have you known that the child is not his, how old is the child?
Will you, of pressed, be prepared to reveal the name of the father?
As his wife, you must have some idea of what to expect. Will your revelation harm you and/or the child's future? if this is likely then you might be advised to wait until a time of your own choosing - when you might have made arrangements for you both.
If you think that your husband make forgive your 'lapse' and cherish the child then you need to take your courage in your hands and ask for a quiet night to discuss something of great seriousness.
In a letter, with no return address, from a land far, far, away! Dirty! He is way too good for you, so stay in that far, far, away land!
some are shy to tell u about their or his child but if the child belongs to u too then they should tell u about it.
my ex and her husband tell me if i do not sign their agreenment. they will call child family services on me.
How dare you even think of cheating on your husband and not telling him. i want you to tell him now as you disgust me. spit on you. Full Stop
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
Yes, you could get into legal trouble if you have a baby together and do not tell your husband where you are. If your husband does not abuse you or control you or harm you in any way he does deserve to be part of your child's life so seek legal counsel and get joint custody as long as your husband is not into drugs; a gang; an alcoholic and would be considered a fit father to the child.
This begs the question, "Why would you?" and perhaps, "How is it any of their business?" Supposing it was it was any of their concern however. You would simply look them in the face and say, "My husband has a child by another woman."
Your husband's sister's child is your niece, and you are her aunt.
No. Tell your husband that breastfeeding is the best thing you can do for your child and that it is not forever.
Hopefully you had sex with your husband on, or about the time that you conceived. Tell your husband the happy news that he is about to be a father. He will raise the child as his own. And for goodness sake be more careful next time.
Your husband's sister's child is your niece if its a girl or Nnphew if its a boy.
You'll need to tell your husband first.
go to the courthouse and tell them that you want him to stop paying child support, my dad doesnt pay for my brother...