How do you tell if you are not in love with someone anymore?

Answer 1

for me.. the answer is very easy.. when you feel that your girl has suddenly change.. she does not do the things she used to do before then you should start thinking about the reason why.. sometimes its quite easier to understand when you know why its happening.. dont let it stress you. if it comes down to it just ask them if they still want to be with you or if they dint. it is better than just thinking that they love you and they dont or you think they dont love you when they do.

Answer 2

It's a hard one because some people just take pure advantage out of the relationship, but it doesn't necessarily mean they don't love the person. Also, the person could be depressed. The best thing to do is have a talk with them and get the answer straight from the horse's mouth. Here are some signs: Not turning up for dates Not remembering special events you both use to share such as birthdays, etc. Hardly phoning you anymore Leaving you sitting at home Not inviting you out to join in with their friends Not discussing ANYTHING when they are with you Lethargic (no energy) Not treating you with the respect you give them These are but a few of the signs. Beware ... talk to the person because you just never know what is causing this change. If you don't feel they have a good enough reason tell them you aren't putting up with this behavior. Be your own boss. You are in charge of your own destiny. Good luck Merry Christmas Marcy Thank you so much.Your advice is commonsense, a change of pace from the ordinary.I guess all the signs were there just too in love to see.It's going to be hard to get over her,but I know in time I will.Again thank you Marcy. Smart person and it's my Christmas gift from me to you. I just know you are either going to work through this relationship and win or you are leave and = meet a great person soon in the future and be glad you waited for them. By the way, it's not always common sense when we love someone. We all make excuses for poor behavior from our boyfriend/girlfriend or an abusive husband/wife. Not one of us can say we haven't been taken in at least once. Truly have a Merry Christmas (you are free!) Marcy Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Answer 3

You start disliking things about them, the little things in particular, and you feel more comfortable away from them than with them. Things that you used to enjoy doing physically with them becomes disgusting and too much trouble. You prefer the kiss on the cheek instead of on the lips. Then you don't even want the kiss on the cheek. You feel a sense of tiresome obligation when they are with you and a sense of relief when they leave. You even can have thoughts flash through your mind off and on that you wish they would find someone else or even die. I dont think love ever really fades..if you really love this person than you will never get over it, part of you will always stay with them. But if you think I mean feel that you dont love this person than you never did love this person. Try not to confuse yourself with what your heart says and what your mind says..

Answer 4

Well All that is true, But, sometimes your partner might feel as if he/she is obligated to be with you, because there is no reason she shouldn't be. For a personal example my last relationship i had was filled with constant problems, I treated her right and was willing to give her the world and more, but she had went through some really bad relationships so she had problems with commitment, when ever she felt she was getting to into the relationship she lost feelings. And i was so in love with her, And she was in love with me to, but some how along the line i noticed a decline in our relationship she didn't want to talk to me much, when i was around her the way we kissed and hugged didnt feel the same and sh jus wasnt my baby anymore that is how i knew i dont know about you but that is how you know when you can feel it You can tell when your partner started to act strange or different around you. If your partner tries to avoid you in anyway or does not look into your eyes for more then enough time, that means your partner is most likely fell out of love with you.

Answer 5

It depends. Here are some reactions that might tell you that your partner is not in love with you anymore:

* He/she might not talk about anything about romance * He/she avoids you at various times * He/she shows some weird/awkward reactions * He/she never goes near you anymore

Answer 6

It's a hard one because some people just take pure advantage out of the relationship, but it doesn't necessarily mean they don't love the person. Also, the person could be depressed. The best thing to do is have a talk with them and get the answer straight from the horse's mouth. Here are some signs: Not turning up for dates Not remembering special events you both use to share such as birthdays, etc. Hardly phoning you anymore Leaving you sitting at home Not inviting you out to join in with their friends Not discussing ANYTHING when they are with you Lethargic (no energy) Not treating you with the respect you give them These are but a few of the signs. Beware ... talk to the person because you just never know what is causing this change. If you don't feel they have a good enough reason tell them you aren't putting up with this behavior. Be your own boss. You are in charge of your own destiny.

Answer 7

- They tell you - They hit you - they sleep with someone else or any other intimate interaction - they dont invite you to their birthday - they don't look you in the eyes - they listen to the song 'Guilty Conciense' by Eminem on a regular basis

Answer 8

they wont talk to u or be home alot lor hug or kiss u with lots of feeling in will be a shortone