How do you tell if your husband in love with some other female?

Answer 1

First you need to be able to accept the answer, And what it will mean to you. Your family structure can be challenged. Are you ready for that. If your not. Then do not ask until you are ready.

If you are ready. Then you should trust in what you know about your husband. Can you tell if he is telling you the truth ?? If not - Don't do it.

If you can... then you should select the right time to question him about it.

And don't just ask him, explain why you believe its true. You must believe its true because your asking him about it. Under no circumstances do you tell your husband - We need to talk...or I want to talk to you about something. Never ever say this to a Man. Don't ask him the way you would want to be asked. You know this man - so ask him in the manner in which He will give you the most honest answer.

As time goes by.. Men are in love with the way a woman makes him feel. Of course it's impossible for you to go into detail about how your relationship has been going with your husband recently. Sometimes men can be over worked, semi depressed or have a mountain of debts to pay off and they become edgy, moody and some may take off to the buy with the guys, while others just sit at home moody. The one thing you don't seem to have in your marriage is good communication skills. However, you probably have 'gut feelings' and right now you have some of those feelings. These are some symptoms (but, beware .... some of these over time excuses may be for real so get your facts straight before you confront him. * Disappearing (not telling you where he is going or when he is coming home.) * Coming home very late at night. Sometimes you can smell perfume of him or simply alcohol which means he was more than likely out drinking with his friends. * Makeup or lipstick on his clothing * Getting strange phone calls during the night (the person may hang up if you answer) or, he may whisper into the phone or walk off into another room to continue his limited conversation with the other person. * Mistreating you mentally or physically. * Not taking you anywhere or, if he does he's moody and sullen and appear disinterested in whether you are having a good time or not. * Won't or refuses to turn up for family events. * Takes off for a couple of days. * Works too much O/T. These are a few signs. If in doubt take a trusted girlfriend and follow him one night to see if he is doing exactly what he says he is doing. That's how I caught my first husband cheating. You can know a person is cheating, but catching them red handed is the best way. So far all you have are suspicions and are second-guessing (easy to do) and you have to decide if you want to stay with him or not. You can't accuse someone of cheating (put yourself in his shoes) if he isn't. If he really isn't cheating and you harp on this, then you'll be the loser and he'll feel suffocated, frustrated he can't convince you otherwise and your marriage is doomed. So, if you confront him with cheating you'd better have facts.