Asked in RelationshipsCheatingMarriage
How do you tell if your husband still wants to be with you?
September 12, 2011 10:30PM
Simple, if you are both home together in the evening does he spend time with you watching t.v. or does he find something else to do. We ask ourselves the sillyest questions at times. If he is busy doing "other things" then it's time to do something with him together, go to a movie go out for dinner do anything but don't sit and stew on it.
Marrage isn't something automatic, you have to work on it "together" and it really isn't work, it's taking the time to stop and remember why you got married in the first place. You can both do other things away from each other and it doesnt mean there's and affair or any of that stuff going on. After all you are two people and you work well apart and better as a team. So instead of wondering, start doing together. Hey if you have to ask then sit down and ask him maybe you both need to listen to each other and get on the same page. Hey it happens and only realizing you havent been talking is the first step to fixing the problem.
Hey men get frumpy too and have there little moods and stupid questions as to who I am and where I am going, what am I doing. They tend to internalize too much and with that they clam up, so I would suggest a nice dinner out followed by a movie and an after the show coffee or desert. Then maybe a good talk and thing should be fine if not then that means both of you need to work on some things "TOGETHER".
Hope that helps