How do you tell your boyfriend you want to break up with him?

Answer 1

SensitivelyThere is no easy way to do it. Call her and ask her if it's okay to go over to her place. Try to call at a time when you know it will likely be okay. Then go over there and get to the point quickly. Don't beat around the bush. But getting to the point quickly doesn't mean being terse, abrupt, and insensitive. Just tell her that you think the two of you should see other people. Or you could tell her plainly that you wish to break up. Or you could tell her that you really wish to date other girls and that being in an exclusive relationship with her is not what you want at this point in your life.

Another tactic is to call her and leave her a short message saying that "we need to talk." That's pretty much a universal prelude to a break-up. When she calls back, she'll be anxious and want to know what's wrong. At that point you tell her -- directly but respectfully. Break-ups over the phone were once considered bad form, but no longer.

DONT EVEB TELL HER!!, JUST CHANGE YOUR STATUS TO SINGLE AND DELETE HER NUMBER!!(;

Answer 2

Be honest, polite and empathetic. Simply tell him the relationship is not working for you and it is best for both of you to part ways. Breakups can be drawn out - keep it simple, to the point and walk away. Unfortunately it doesn't sound very good and may seem short but there is just no easy way to break up. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Let her do it. If it is a reason that is reasonable. ALSO, BE UNDERSTANDING!! Girls hate it when you aren't understanding and you get all mad.

Any reason that she may have is reasonable to her. If she wants to let you go, allow her to. It is not worth the tears and heart break to try to "fix her". As the Bonnie Raitt song goes " I can't make you love me so I'll go".

Answer 4

Well, breaking up is always tough, but you are quite fortunate that you submitted your question and it is now being answered by two relationship experts. There are three key things to look out for when wondering whether or not she wants call it quits: *She is avoiding you, and not answering any of your calls. She also seems that she would prefer to be with ANYONE xcept you. * She asks if you and her can talk alone soon. *She has all of a sudden become less interested in what you do and what you say, honestly she really doesn't give a crap. Sorry dude, these are the warning signs. its time for you to move on!

Answer 5

Be easy, talk to him alone, get a conversation about the relationship, ask for his take on it, if he thinks its not working out, then just break it off. If he thinks it is, and you don't tell him why, and break up with him.

Answer 6

It is best to do it face to face, unless you have reason to believe they may get violent or abusive; in which case phoning is better. Texting is a poor choice.

Be as respectful as you can be. Be quick and firm in informing them of you decision; and don't get drawn into a long discussion about it.

End the conversation at the first opportunity; there will be time for discussion another day if you wish.

Answer 7

Before breaking up give it a thought what make you think of break up. after you figure out the reason try to work upon it and make it clear. If it still does not work out then be bold tell them face to face.

Answer 8

In person! Never break up over a text! Just tell them how you feel... who knows maybe they feel the same way

Answer 9

you don't say anything. you stage a your own, very believable death and go to live with your mistress, Diego luno, in Scandinavia.... at least that's what i did.

Answer 10

call her ugly