How do you get your ex back after breaking up with him because you thought he was cheating when he wasn't?

Answer 1

I hope you have learned a lesson from 'second guessing' your boyfriend or boyfriends to come. Unless they are caught cheating or you know for sure they are then you're just considered the jealous type and men of any age don't like women with a jealous streak. All you can do is phone him and apologize and hope he'll go out on a date with you providing he doesn't have a steady girlfriend. If you have jealousy issues then seek counseling. Assuming you really are sure he was trustworthy, restoring his hurt feelings and trust in you might take some time. If you haven't already done so, openly share with him how mistaken you were and tell him how sorry you are. Don't be surprised if he doesn't immediately respond to this, but make it clear that you want to restore the relationship if he would like to. Tell him it is up to him and that you will understand if he feels the damage done was too great...and mean it. Are there some nice things you could do for him that he would like that aren't too pushy or involve you hanging around too much? Don't be surprised if he tries to ignore or hurt you back - just remember that he is working through a major hurt, and try to avoid negative responses.

As mentioned above, you may fall into the same trap again unless you deal with the feelings of insecurity that led to this situation arising. Even if it is not with this guy, it will just as likely surface again in later relationships.

Answer 2

Call him and talk to him and tell you was thinking about him and ask can you go out sometimes and even send him a card or flowers just because