How much to give your cousin for his wedding?

Answer 1

Well, how much do you like your cousin? Likely her daughter is not expecting anything from you other than a really nice hand written note, so the amount you spend should be a reflection of how close you are to your extended family in general, and your cousin in particular. Likely mom is the source of the invite, and the gift should reflect your closeness with her. This hold true for most invites to friends daughter's weddings.

Because you are asking the question, it tells me that you think you should send something.... even if just to keep family relations going.

If you want good appearances and get good word of mouth with the family, I recommend more than $50 (even $60 looks better, and can get something quite tangible.) In my opinion a very nice vase can be about this amount, but valued by the bride more than money due to the thought and time taken to buy it.

If you budget is tight, then consider buying something small but nice (inexpensive picture frame?) and giving only $25 or less. Or make something to give... if you really do live on a budget, then it won't be a surprise to anyone that you are giving what you can afford, while valuing your family relations.

The above guideline is assuming you can't attend. If you are attending, when you think of your budget for a gift, think how much you would normally spend for an evening out ( as you will save that money by attending this event instead), then add in what you think your should for the "family" factor (e.g., your relationship of your cousin, not the Bride).

Answer 2

• Only give what you can afford and people should receive the smallest amount with thanks. You could spend $50 to any amount and it is entirely up to you.