How should a daughter feel if her parents are divorced and are getting remarried to other people?

Answer 1

The feelings that people have should not be determine by how they think they should feel, but how they really feel. How do you feel ? Only you can answer this and it is OK to have feelings about this. A divorce is a form of death because you loose people and a way of living. It takes about 2 years to work through the feelings on this matter. What you feel is what you feel. I suspect that your parents have been divorced for awhile since they are getting married again. It is hard to have a new person in your life and a new family. I learned this first hand after my father died and my mother remarried 4 years later. I was 50 years old and had to deal with it. I still don't particularly like him, but I do treat him with respect because of my mother. He treats her well and she isn't alone. This is something you will have to decide about the step parents and think about how your mother or father feels when you deal with the new person.