How do you tell your same sex best friend you love her?

Answer 1

Well first of all, don't be afraid, This is a common thing with women/young ladies now-a-days. If you have these feelings for your friend, basically, make your move, let her know your passion and want for her. If she objects, At least you know. If you need a cover story, say you were just a bit caught up in the moment from the influence of alcohol or something. That's if you are drinking. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

It depends if she's a lesbian too. If she is, it would be fine. She might even like you back!

If she is straight, hold off, because straight girls get a little freaked out when they find out that their female friends like them.

If she is bisexual, tell her. What the heck? She might date you!

Answer 3

Umm...... I have no idea.. I guess you ask her would you be friends with a lesbian, and if she says yes, ask her what if that friend/lesbian is in love with you..But if she says no, Then forget it.. Some people dont change Honey

Hope that helps ^_^

-T ______________________________________ No disrespect intended to the person before but I don't believe this is the best option. However, that way may work for you but there are other options. One is a risky way but aren't they all, if she's knows your a lesbian tell her you have strong feelings for a straight girl and what advice would she give you, if she tells you to go for it, tell her but don't rush it (this can be a huge shock). However if she doesn't know your a lesbian you may want to tell her several weeks before telling her how you feel (unless she asks you after telling her your a lesbian, in this case just be honest), this is because you need to give her time to accept this, and then suck up some courage and tell her when your ready. Another way is too drop hints everynow and again, but you must know her personality well and know how'd she'd react. Good Luck =D

Answer 4

Try talking to her and explain that you feel more than friendship. Has she indicated sexual intrest in you ? It is hard to rationally analyse a realtionship with someone you have a crush on , but the best thing to do is ask yourself 'does she feel the way i feel ?' if you are convinced she does , the best thing to do is talk to her about it.

Also consider evidense of her sexual tastes , has she had boyfriends ? has she has sex with men and how does she rate it?

If she displays no sexual intrest in men or finds sex with men unintresting , she may perfere women so would be intrested you you as a partner.

Sorry Person Above But It's Not A Simple As That! I mean i think that MY best friend feels the same way about me but just because she may not show any interest in boys at this age that does not mean that she's gay. I am 12 in 4 days and she is already 12 and she has never displayed any interest in lads. Also i don't Think that any of these people giving advice are gay because most of them spoil stuff by putting "gay people rock" at the end of their speach but as a fellow lesbian who is ACTUALLY in this situation i understand. I also understand the pressure and that sometimes it can just get too much. I think that i made a mistake in telling my best friend that i'm a lesbian because now i have to lie about who i crush on because i don't want to lose her. I am lucky that she was understanding and didn't freak out on me and now she's pressuring me into telling my parents but i'm not even a teenager for gawd's sake! I get that many people are in this situation and don't know what to do ~Me included~ but i also wanted to say that although times can be tough there is never any need for suicide. I have tried to commit suicide before but as you can all see i am very much alive and thankful to the paramedics who saved me. I just thought that if i topped myself then i would no longer have any feelings for my best friend and she could live a long, happy life without me but now we are closer than ever! It's killing me not telling her and to the many of you i would just say go for it! I mean who ever said that life would be easy? Sometimes you have to just knuckle down and do things, I mean what if she accepts and say that she has had a crush on you for ages and was waiting for you to ask her out? How good would that make you feel? Hope this information helped

Becky

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Answer 5

Well if you don't already know her email or phone number ask for it. When you have it you can either call and tell her you like her or email her and tell her you like her.