Slow down - take a deep breath - find a quiet spot to think. Take a pad of paper and a pen and make two columns headed up as follows: (1) Good things about the last 30 years (2) Bad things about the last 30 years If the good things far outweigh the bad things, then you have to determine if your wife has terminated her affair, and is sorry and wants to continue a relationship with you. You will have some decisions to make. If your wife is not sorry and is continuing the cheating then you have no alternative, but to terminate the relationship. This is really a tough one because if the past 30 years have been really good, do you want to throw it all away.
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
I'm not sure as to what the cheating husband has to do with things, but yes. Definitely. The best idea for this situation is to cheat on the Girlfriend so that he can feel the same struugle of being cheated on so that it can bring you two closer in friendship.
No
Definitely yes
Follow your gut
I THINK HE PROBABLY IS CHEATING ON YOU.BUT ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUTS .
no because he is to good for you you cheating scum
No spouse should have to put up with their spouse cheating or continuing to cheat. You can sit down with your husband and tell him you refuse to put up with his cheating and if he continues then you will file for divorce. No man or woman in a marriage is to stay in a marriage where one is disloyal. You should have self confident enough to know what you want and do not want in your life.
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
Try to spend as much time as possible with your Husband.
Once a spouse has cheated it is difficult for the other spouse to trust them again. Often some people who cheat will cheat again. Communication skills are important and you should feel free to ask him if he is cheating again. Most likely he will not tell you the truth, but this gives you the opportunity that you have learned from before the signs of cheating and if you catch him cheating again then it's the end of the marriage.
Yes.