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Eventhough it IS hard to talk about, you really need to! I myself was abused by my stepbrother for about 6 years, so I can relate. I was 8 when it started and 13 when it ended. I am now 23 and have been with my husband for 6 years. We had sexual problems in the begining. But thank God for my husbands patince and understanding we now have 3 beautiful boys. The more you can talk openly about it the easier it gets. It also helps you to heal. God bless.

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Q: How should you tell your boyfriend that you were abused by your father when it is hard for you to talk about the situation?
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