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  • The fact your husband cared enough to tell you about his emotional affair even though he knew it would hurt you took some fortitude on his part and his guilt has compelled him to be honest which most men seldom are. Never mind if he slept with her or not, but relish in the thought he loved you enough to tell you the truth. Humans make mistakes and your husband made one. It will take time for you to trust him again, but in time you will. Remember, he didn't have to tell you.
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Q: Husband told me he had a 6 month emotional affair with a coworker and he kissed her once but is there a way to tell if he slept with her and just told me as little as possible because it hurt me?
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