I am a girl but no boy propose me and i am already in college now I feel shy for that Can you answer me why boys don't like me?

Answer 1

I would say it is your self-esteem and self worth that is the root of your problem.

I know, it is not easy feeling secure in yourself, when it seem that you are unloved.

If you look for validation outside yourself, you will only be chasing misery.

"To thine own self be true" - follow your own truth, and learn to love yourself for who you are. You have a lot to offer. You are loveable.

We are generally our own harshest critics, and tell ourselves the most horrible things when looking at ourselves in a mirror. Insults, that if uttered by a stranger on the street, would result with you writing off the person as a lunatic, or a smack in the face of the person.

I suggest you read some books on building your confidence, "The new codependency" by Melody Beattie or any book by Paul McKenna is a good start.

1. Do this exercise:
2. Find a full body mirror and stand naked in front of it
3. Now judge on a scale from 1-10 on how happy you are with what you see.
4. Close your eyes
5. Picture in your mind someone who loves you, and who gave you a compliment. Remember how they look at you.
6. Imagine they are standing in front of you, facing the same way as you
7. Take one physical step forward and in your mind, step into the person that look at you with love and affection.
8. Open your eyes
9. Look at yourself through that persons eyes
10. Do another estimate on the scale from 1-10 on how happy you feel with what you see.

Feel secure in yourself, and you will find suitors knocking at your door.