I am dating a cardiothoracic surgeon and he still has a fellowship to complete He's really busy but he makes an effort to call me every day I really like him but I rarely see him Is this a bad sign?

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If you've had a few good dates where you've both had wonderful communication and it seems as though his feeling is mutual if he calls you every day, then it's probably that his fellowship has to, unfortunately, take precedence for now. If you see yourself with him in the future, I would have patience and try to find a few spare moments here and there whenever possible to keep the communication going and learning more about one another. I know it may be difficult, but if he is a keeper and you want to continue on with him, at least you can feel confident that he will be a good provider to you and your children(?) with the career he has chosen, right? Ultimately, you must listen to your instincts; if you don't have a good feeling about continuing, then don't. If you have a good feeling, then by all means...enjoy every moment together; learn and grow and enrich one another :-)