I broke up with my boyfriend because he gave me reason not to trust him. It feels like i made the biggest mistake of my life. i want him back what do i do?

Answer 1

You probably would never get him/her back. You've messed up and once you've ruin trust, its really hard to get that back from someone. If you really love this person, you would leave them alone and let them heal. You cant blame the person that's hurting for being skeptical about continuing a relationship with you.

AnswerYou are describing a delicate situation. Contary to popular belief, men have deep, powerful feelings, which they usually grow up believing have to be kept hidden. When a man comes to trust a woman, he attaches a lot of emotional importance to that relationship. Once that trust is broken, getting it back is very hard, and often takes a long time. So don't expect him to quickly return to the way he used to be with you.

But you can be his friend, and let him know that he is important to you. Try to spend time with him doing things like going to concerts, movies, or shopping trips, but don't ask him to spend all of his time with you. Don't call him constantly, but do call him and ask how he is doing, and what is going on with his life. Let him get used to you being around without the pressure to be close. Maybe he will come to feel the way about you that he used to, but there is no way of being certain.

If you feel that you must be in a relationship, find someone else to be close to, but don't exclude your former boyfriend from your life. It depends on the individual, but some men are strong enough to be friends with someone they once loved.