You need to take underconsideration that he cheated on you 2 years ago the time between then and now think there is more that you havnt found out about? I don't believe once a cheater alwaya a cheater and I do believe guys can learn from it. But when my ex cheated on me I seriously could not trust him again I just always had in the back of my mind when I was not with him the what ifs and it drove me crazy I felt like I always had to be with him to make sure that I was the only girl in his life! And when I started doing that I stopped living my life and lost who I was! Maybe your stronger then I was but I just couldn't be with a cheater and I learned to never take one back! I just ended up never being happy and being overwhelmed with worry. Hope this helps probably not the answer you were looking for but that's my honest blunt answer! NO girl deserves to be cheated on!
All I'm sayin is...You can't
It is more likely than not.
depends, how long have u been together? how old r u guys?
You're worried that he might do it again - so you dream about it, that's all. It's not proof of anything else than your very understandable concerns.
I think your question lacks information. For example, does your boyfriend and his ex have kids or any other reason for talking? Also, are you saying he has cheated on you with her?
* Whether your girlfriend had sex with her old boyfriend or not is certainly not the point. She cheated on you and has broken that bond of trust you had together. Take a break from her and tell her you need to take a break from her to decide if staying together in your relationship together is worth it. Make her sweat! People do make mistakes and if she hasn't cheated before she may not do so again, but that would be a risk you would have to take. Generally when one person cheats on the other the relationship is never the same again because that bond of trust is broken.
not to be rude but if he cheated on you i would not take him back. find some one else there are plenty of fish in the sea. no man should cheat on there girl. because he cheated on you if you do get him back he's going to do it again and again behind your back and im not trying to be rude just trying to keep you from getting hurt again
All you can do is tell him that you are sincerely sorry, and will never do it again. The rest is up to him to decide if he can trust you again. Give him that right because he deserves it after what you did.
If it was a long time ago and you rsolved the issue, then don't bring it up again. Provided he hasn't cheated since, you are fine together. If you didn't sort out the problem when it happened, you need to talk to him about how you feel regarding the problem.
Because you accepted & tolerated it the first time. You should not have married him knowing he cheated. If he can't be a faithful BOYFRIEND, why were you expecting him to be a faithful HUSBAND? By excusing it the first time, he was under the impression that you've forgive it again & again & again.
This is just my opinion, but I dont think I would be able to trust again.
I have, and haven't yet again.
Kick him to the curb, no self respecting girl/boy has to put up with that, if he cheated once he WILL do it again. You will find a great guy/gal who will respect and love you. this loser will not.