Unfortunately it sounds as though he is not interested and is moving on as you should as well.
I believe that getting your friend to dump your boyfriend is wrong. Tell her she has to do it herself or it will really break his heart. If her boyfriend is really immature he wont believe you if you tell him anyway. If you have to do it, break it to him gently, somewhere along the lines of "Amy really likes you but she thinks it will be best if you just stayed friends, maybe you should talk to her about it, sort things out." That will force your friend to talk to him herself. Hope this helps!
Do you know why he doesn't like you? If you really like your boyfriend, don't put up with this friend. Take him aside, ask him why he has a problem with you. Once you find out try to fix it. If he continues to be obnoxious and rude, tell your boyfriend. If your boyfriend really cares about you he wont care about what his friend is saying so don't worry about it so much. If it worries you, be honest and ask him what is the deal with his nosy friend. ------------------------------------------------------- The advice above is good.... but perhaps your boyfriends best friend (which I am assuming here is male) is jealous of you in that you are now occupying your boyfriend's time rather than your boyfriend doing things with his friend. If this is the case then try and make sure that you boyfriend gets some time to spend with his friend (i.e. don't monopolise him). If however the best friend is female then you have a rival.
no it is not right to be jealous of your boyfriends best friend because he has known him for over a decade and there are things that you will learn so you know as much about your boyfriend but there are things that you know about your boyfriend that his best friend does not
personally for all of my relationships with friends and their boyfriends is, if you were really a good friend you would be totally cool around your friend and her boyfriend. then find someone else you like even more. You have to support your friend an be there for her when things go wrong. You are bound to find some other guy at some point!
First, ask her for a list of things that must be in her perfect, boyfriend. then just start hunting around for someone who meets the qualifications
Seek the advice of a best friend. I was once in this situation. If your best friend just shruggs, then think about the bad things about his best friend and the good things about him.
Show him the things that were so great about you and the things that you did together that he liked so much! The down side of this is think about your best friend! Yeah I know he is your ex boyfriend but would you really think that's it's such a good idea to do that to her? Like what if he was still your boyfriend and she stole him from you? I'm pretty sure that you would get very mad and like what kind of friend would that be? Even though it's hard really really try to put your self into her place! Because he might make her so happy and that would be wrong to take that away from her!
You should really talk with your friend and explain things to her - remember no guy is worth fighting over and you can keep friends longer than a boyfriend.
dump him
he like you or things that you like something about your boyfriend that he doesn't have
tell your girlfriend and then go to your boyfriend and say all the good things about your girlfriend
hello and if your friend is ditching you for her boyfriend forget about her you have more than 1 friend Hope this helps.You should sit down and have a calm discussion about the way you feel. Say things like, "I know you really like this guy, but could you make some scheduled time just for us to hang out" or "I know you want to hang out with him but could we have a girls night out every once in a while?" Things like that will show that you want to remain friends but she can still have time for her boyfriend.