I takes 2 to tango. Forget the mistress and concern yourself with your marriage and why your husband is sleeping around.
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You have this situation a little backward. First off your husband should not be having an affair and you should demand he break it off entirely or you are heading for divorce court. There is no need to have anything to do with his mistress and why should you care if she apologizes or not. It's time you sat up and started to fly right and ask your husband if he even wants to save the marriage and forget the mistresses part in this.
Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..
For a while yes she will, because the pain is hard and deep and she will learn to put a shield around her. She will think how her husband make love to his mistress. She will think if her husband kissed his mistress the way he kiss her. Even if her husband affair is been over, she will always think what his mistress have that she don't have. There will be a lot that will remind her no matter what, especially for the first year of the discovery. It will take time to really forget but when or if she do it will feel like a big thorn on her side is finally lift of. ANSWER: I do agree to everything she had said to you because it really happens in real life and myself included.
Forget him! Thoes qualities make a bad husband! Yetif you really do love him maybe councling or therapy could help.
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
Defensive mechanism in her body..Telling her to forget him, so she can move on.
If the affair is over then you should forget it. Put it behind you and hopefully never repeat it.
Stand your ground and face your husband calmly about his affair and tell him indeed his affair was important because he broke his marriage vows and broke the one thing that is most important in a marriage .... trust! Tell him he has to earn that trust back and if he doesn't like it or sees fit to seek marriage counseling then kick him out. Perhaps when he realizes that you are not putting up with his past cheating and the affair hurt you and now your bond of trust is no more he may begin to realize what he has done and take you more seriously. He appears to be living in a world of unreality if he thinks you can let his affair go and forget about it.
Will and Grace - 1998 An Affair to Forget 2-19 was released on: USA: 18 April 2000
Wings - 1990 An Affair to Forget 5-5 was released on: USA: 14 October 1993