If im not in love with my husband is it breaking gods commandment if i get a divorce to be with some one you are in love with?

Answer 1

yes. and it would show our humanity if we ran around chasing things, and not keeping commitments. marriage is about more than just love. most definitly it is a plus, and without it, the marriage seems incomplete. but there is more to it, mainly commitment. here, people change, so to 'fall out of love' seems possible with change in the picture. but God does not change, He is the only one who can love perfectly, and thus the only one who can show us perfect love, which He did through Christ. God mirrors perfect love in His commitments to people, He does all that He says He will; and when you are married, the idea is that you also made that commitment not only to your husband, but to God. I believe it is Hosea in The Bible, who talks of God's unending love, maybe it would help you, if you read of God's love, to see what love is, and show you what it means to love, and more specifically your husband. there is also a book entitled Redeeming Love, by Francine Rivers which tells this story in a slightly more modern context, though i am not comparing it wil the Bible's version, i do mean that she copies the story from the true story of Hosea. there are a few situations in which God allows divorce, and i believe Paul, and in a few of the Gospels, even Jesus addresses the topic.