If someone has finished with you but you know they still have feelings for you can you get them to change their mind?

Answer 1

You can't make anyone change their mind, it is up to them. If they want to get back with you they will come to you. If you know for sure they still have feelings for you, then talk to them, ask them if they think you two could try a relationship again. But first sit down and think why you two boke up in the first place, and if it is something you can work on together, or that will never change. I agree. Give it time and have faith in his feelings for you. Let time and space heal your wound. If his love is true, he will come back to you. You can not force it. He has to come to you of his own accord. The more time he has away from you, the more time you have to get strong and be the woman he fell in love with. Women react immediately. Men bury unresolved feelings. If he is honest with himself, he will eventually seek you out. It's tough to be patient, that's why do not wait even if he's the only one for you. Build up your life. Be with friends. Make new friends. Discover new hobbies. Get in better shape! Do all the projects you put off for a rainy day. That's what I am slowly doing. Because I am in a similar predicament. I miss my man daily. I think about him and even write to him in my journal. He meant the world to me. I took him for granted. We were together for one year. He said he had to let me go because he was unhappy and his heart slowly closed to me many months ago. He still loves me (so he says) but lost the passion (in-love feeling). I cried a lot. We talked a lot. But since we broke up, I had a few breakdowns and called him to get more answers. Not the best idea, but I felt better afterwards. I know he jumped back into dating (or at least looking) immediately after the break up. He was ready because he made up his mind months ago. He was in break up mode in someways before he ended it. I could drown in tears with that answer, but I choose to pick myself up and be the woman I know he wants and live for me! He WILL be back. I know in my heart without evidence or proof. I believe in what we had (in the beginning) and with time he will come to know it, too. Men take longer to realize what they lost. It was not perfect, but love never is. But deep, powerful love does not fade or get lost. It simple has been hidden from sight for one reason or another. Faith in who you are aqnd what you want will get you through the rough moments. I let it out when I am home alone. But I read a lot and talk to friends and family... it's therapy. I pray a lot, too! Prayer gives power, faith and courage. You'll be fine. If he is the one you want, let him find his way back to your heart!!