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because the affair partner is usually a fill in because the wife is neglecting the husbands needs remember that just because he has sex w/ you does not mean he loves you he is probably looking for attention that his wife is not giving him and when you give him that attention then he returns to his wife because he didnt have the affair because he didnt love her any more it was just because he was lacking in certain areas in their relationship and you full filled that need Trust me on this one girls 1% of the time a married man will leave his wife for you. Also worst yet if he has a kid with her. Also girls in this situation who is with a married man stop proving yourself to be so desperate. girls who find themselves in these relationships find it hard to stay in a decent stable after also it just looks shabby on your character.

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Q: If the sex is so wonderful during a affair then why does the man return to his wife instead of staying with the affair partner?
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