You have to sit down and write out a list of what is keeping you in Maryland. Put down pros and cons. Here are some hints:
Did he give you a chance to go with him?
Doesn't he realize you have hopes and dreams too?
If he loved you so much how could he leave you?
If you have a great job and make good money, then it's tough, but if you make an average wage you probably could do better in California.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this same man that gave you up to pursue his dreams?
Is there a big risk factor with him?
Do you trust him?
Before you make any big move, go visit him when you get your holidays. You want to be sure he's doing what he says he's doing and hasn't met someone else and is stringing you along.
Does he call you at least 2 - 3 times a week? If not, I wouldn't move to California.
Good luckMarcy
Answerthanx marcy =) he thought i was gonna move with him. But i was to scared. we talk every morning and every night. and ive been there 6 times!
You should be able to talk about everything. A boyfriend should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. So you should be able to talk about planes, cars, girls, boys, family, friends, and everything inbewteen.
the best thing to talk to your your boyfriend about is everything and anything you should be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything and everything and both of you should be able to feel comfortable about any conversations he should talk to you about anything and everything even if its just nothing on your mind you should be able to speak your mind with him.
Yes there are people like this. If you are not comfortable, then talk to him.
well, i think you should just ignore it and if he does it a lot, THINK about breaking up with him.
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! VANESSA RODRIGUEZ
That would suck, but eventually you will find someone and everything will turnout ho it should
You meet and greet his family with a smile. Later clear everything out with your boyfriend. If everything is clear live happily.If he does so meet the family. Ask him later why is he doing so. Then clarify everything with him.
what should i do? i love my boyfriend, but my feelings for this girl are so strong, and were so alike its rediculas.. and im afraid that if i break up with my boyfriend for this girl everything will be messed up... what do i do.
It just means that there is someone you had contact with in your past who is no longer that same sort of contact. People aren't replaceable. It has nothing to do with your commitment to your boyfriend, and you should not pursue it.
you should tell him that your best friend has been there for you for everything and that you have to stand by her. if he can't accept that, then he's not a good boyfriend.
If he is already your boyfriend then this should not be a problem. On the other hand if this is a prospective boyfriend then it should be suggested that you arrange a mutual and informal 'getting to know eachother' rendevous. If this proves successful then move forward into 'dating'. Try not to in the initial stages use words as 'date', 'boyfriend' - keep it simple and uncompromising and everything should follow it's course.
When your boyfriend asks you what you love about them you should say everything. If he asks you what everything means you should say I love your deep voice if he has one, the way you cant stop buying me things, the way you laugh, the fact that you tell me you love me all the time and the way you hold me at night.