If you are scared to tell your parents, then talk to another responsible adult - one that will tell you WHY YOU ARE VERY WRONG TO EVEN CONSIDER IT. This is not trying to preach to you or judge you - it's just looking at the cold, hard facts. Having a baby at 14 is an extreme risk to your health - it can literally kill you. According to UNFPA and the World Health Organization, girls age 15 through 19 are twice as likely to die during pregnancy or child birth as those over age 20; girls under age 15 are five times more likely to die. Even if it doesn't kill you it can cause permanent health problems. That doesn't even begin to cover all the economic and social problems that will result.
Wouldn't you want to wait until you're older? I'm your age, and there is no way I could raise a child. By having a child, you are giving up your teenage social life because you won't have time. You will not get as much sleep. Your grades will suffer. Also, remember that while babies are cute, they also grow up to be moody and act up. Do you want to be responsible for the growth of someone else while you are still growing?
If you are 'thinking' about having a baby at 14, you are not thinking! How are you going to pay for a baby? Not to mention how are you going to pay for your support for the rest of your life? Going to find free child care so you can finish middle school and then go to high school so you can hope to have something better than a minimum wage job?
Not to mention sexual intercourse at such a young age is illegal. In most States it is statutory rape and in others it is illegal sexual contact.ANSWERWhy do you want to have a baby now your only 14 you have the rest of your life for that. Having a baby is a huge commitment that should not be taken lightly. A baby will look to you for everything--and babies need constant love and nurturing for their brain to grow properly. How are you going to support it as your not even entitled to state benefits at your age? You should definitely wait until you have finished school settled down with the right person and have accommodation and a regular income of your own. In the meantime I suggest you visit your doctor for the contraceptive pill.
Reasons not to have a baby at 14:
Generally when a young person wants to have a baby they feel they are not loved as much as they should be ... something is missing and so they feel they can transfer their love onto a baby that will love them back. Having children is a wonderful thing and child birth a miracle in itself, but not when you are a child yourself. You are not mentally or physically prepared to give birth and raise a child.
Please go onto the internet and learn more about parenthood and what all the responsibilities are that go with it. Learn from chats (such as Wiki s here under teen pregnancies) what other young teens say about having a baby too soon. Most wish they'd never gotten pregnant.
You are a fine young person and I'm betting you are smarter than this. Now that some of us have given our views on this subject and you read the experiences of others under 'teen pregnancy' on Wiki s that you'll be smart enough to wait until you are older. Don't waste your young life and enjoy your teen years because they go by so quickly. Once your teen years are over reality sets in and statistically speaking about 50 - 60 years of reality shoved up your nose. Don't blow it by getting pregnant!
encourage her to tell her parents. Go with her to give her more confidence. The boyfriend should also be there to face the situation.
Sit them down. Tell them I have some bad news. Then tell them. I'd have to have a reason ready, too.
Tell your best friend first. Then if they just say whatever tell your parents.
Maybe she's scared to.
scared;scared of dark
she was scared of going to jail, her parents divorcing and getting shot
That they is scared bruthu
Panic is when you freak out and don't know what to do. You get so nervous or angry or scared that you are only thinking about that and not thinking about what you could do to resolve a problem. Terror is when you are extremely scared.
If You Have Found A Lump You Need To Overcome Your Fears And Go To Your Doctor And If You Dont Want Your Parents To Find Out You Can Tell Your Doctor That And He Wont Say Anything.
The main reason that someone is scared is because they have a fear that the person might not like them back or even laugh at them
You can stop vandalism by telling they would die if they vandalise and they would be scared
You are scared of sex or its just that your mind is telling you to be carefull
What you need to do is not drink as many liquids or use bathroom before you go to bed.
A phobic means your scared of lot's of things. For example: You have a phobia about having the lights off at night because your scared of the dark.
you might get scared because its someone ur parents or someone dont no u talk to
They don't pee because when they're scared they're thinking about what is scaring them not about that unless they're really scared. YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW ALOT DO YOU. hahahah
Kids, like all people, are scared of having surgery. This is because it is a new experience, and they might be afraid that it will hurt or that they might die.
because he is scared
you may just destroy them
No, people who lie are just scared of telling the truth.
sometimes its because the guy likes the girl and is scared of telling
MMR vaccination is followed by local inflammation and fever. In some places where the sample or method of administration is defective it has resulted in infant deaths so parents are scared and avoid MMR vaccination.
Yes, there is such a thing as a phobia of having relatives over.If you are scared of having family meals with people or relatives, it is called Deipnophobia.If you are scared of relatives in general, it is called Syngenesophobia.
im not scared because santa is real and i know him did you know that now!!!!