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Yes, if your child plays with the child having the birthday or goes to school with them. You could get a gift, card and take your child over to let them hand it to them at an earlier date.

Yes, if the child is a relative or the child of a friend that you are close to. If it's just a co-workers child or a child of someone you don't know well, no.

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* It is poor etiquette not to send a gift. You could send the gift with a friend that is going or drop it off a few days after the wedding shower (just in case it's a surprise for the bride to be.) A card should be attached to the gift and inside you should let them know you are sorry you could not attend, but send your best wishes (or love.)

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You are never obligated to send a gift, but it's a nice gesture, especially if you like the couple (or the one you know/are related to.) You can send just a card, especially if you can't afford anything. Try to personalize it with a remeberance of something you did together in happy times (Unless this person is your ex, in which case you don't need to send anything if you don't want to.)

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I would send a gift. She was nice enought to invite you and wanted you to be there. it is just good manners and a good way for you to keep connection with the Mom & get to see the baby! Karen Jewell Invitations & Calligraphy www.calligraphytothestars.com If you are even thinking about getting married contact me! :-)

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  • Even if you have bought a wedding shower gift and have been invited to the wedding you should also give the bride and groom a gift.
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depends how close they are to you.

if theyre just an old work friend then maybe not or maybe a less exspensive gift but if theyre close friends then be kind.

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