Be honest with your boyfriend about your feelings and listen to his perspective. Choose a private and respectful setting to have this conversation. Allow yourself and your boyfriend time to process the breakup and heal.
You may not break-up with him because, there is still a feeling that you love him but then you want to erase him in your mind right? its easy..make a letter ( not e-mail OK ) and express your feelings for him and tell him how much you love him before..but at the end..tell him that you want to break-up with him..and i guess he would understand.
If you are honest with yourself then you will know the reason why you want to break up with your long term boyfriend. It could be boredom; perhaps you have come to realize there is no future with him and you want more in a relationship or perhaps you simply do not love him any longer and want your freedom to date others. The only way to break up is to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you cannot stay with him living a lie. When you love someone you do not want to leave them so the love has gone out of your relationship.
dont you rather he knows the truth then be played. if you really care about him and you dont want to break his heart then you should be honest with him.
If he is truly in love with you he will respect that and wait till you both are ready.
If he is your boyfriend... Break up with him.. I'm sorry but it looks like he doesn't love you anymore.... If he isn't your boyfriend, apparently you just got rejected. Sorry. There are two choices you can pick from; 1) Break up with him and move on to someone who will actually love you, 2) Make him fall in love with you
confront him about it and if he doesnt want to fix it and it bothers you that much then break up with him
just tell your friends that you are not gonna do it they cant tell you what to do!
its clear that if you love him than you should stay with him. no matter how fair away he is
Well my boyfriend and I used to argue about this a lot. He kept saying we were going to break up eventually because of it then I realized he didn't really love me so I left him.
You will know when your boyfriend is in love with you, when he texts you saying i love you and i cant stop thinking about you. Even in class or around you friendshe might tease you and make your friends jealous. Kissing can also say alot that he's in love with you. If he's in love with you he will not want to break up with you, which is a very good sign.
Wait, so you want someone to break up with their boyfriend for you? ok...umm...there has to be a reason to break up first i guess. I agree with the person above me. If the girl wants to break up with her boyfriend, she will. She's not going to do it just because you don't want them to go out.
You don't want to just "get a boyfriend". A boyfriend is someone who you develop a strong relationship with, care about and love. Without that it would just be awkward, stressful and you'd just break up in less than a week.