If you really like a guy and he has told you he likes you why does he find it easy to flirt with other girls but not with you?

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I am not a psychologist so don't take my answer as a professional advise. I am however, a guy who has some experience in what you are asking. This is how it works for guys. Men are somewhat weird when it comes to relationships. We like to feel wanted, desired, admired, etc..etc.. but MUST importantly we like the challenge. By you admitting to him that you like him you have already taken the "challenge" out of the equation, and he is no longer interested because he knows that he can go with you ANY TIME, HOW does he know that??? you just told him that..... I know it sounds complicated because when you like a person the most reasonable thing to do is to tell them... right? But relationships are funny and when you like a person that is the last thing you admit. I am not saying that you have to stop liking this guy, you just have to learn how play the "relationship game" There is good news though !!!! you have not lost the battle. As a guy I will let you into the guy's brain and tell you this secret. We like women that are smart, funny, and original. Women that take care of themselves intellectually, spiritualy, and that make their own decisions. Not the ones who follow the crowd. I can almost reasure you that if you "all of the sudden" seem to not care whether he exists or not, he will notice that and again starts noticing that there is a wall "challenge" and he will be interested in you, and flirt with you..... when he starts flirting with you though..... DO NOT PUT THE WALL DOWN.. I would recomend this book to you.. "The Five Love Languages of Teenagers" Good luck