Could go one of two ways, either you will become the object in the way that is seen as "homewrecker and jealous" which the husband will try to pinpoint you as, or your classified info released can perhaps bring them closer or break up something that probably needs to be
I don't know if he's cheating on the marriage in the traditional sense, but he's apparently cheating on the agreement you both made. And he's hiding it, which means he's being dishonest.
It is a sensor that is telling you too look out for this man. He is a chiller. That's what you call it because if he is cheating on you and you had a baby without telling the father of that child then there is going Tobe a lot of fussing.
Nothing, but time. Time brings forgiveness, love and mostly regain trust.
When a couple separates they are free to date whomever they want and it doesn't come under the heading of cheating.
aside from the routine snooping, observe his body language and look -- tho don't over do it -- for discrepancies between his words and his body language including his actions. at some point, voice your suspicions and ask him directly if he's cheating. most liars are not hard to find out if you're paying attention.
go to the 99 cent stor and buy a couple of thongs and leave a pair on the bedroom floor under the bed oh her side or just do nothing and keep her !!!!!!
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Generally no it is not selfish of a wife not to let her husband to allow his friends to live with them. If they are close friends and have lost their home and need to get on their feet and you have the room then yes, for the sake of humanity one should take only a family in (whether it's one couple and no children or with children.) If they are single then they are adults and therefore should not use your home as a flop house. Stand your ground if this is the case. The work load will be on your shoulders and remind your husband of that.
When a person is cheating by texting they are generally very foxy and private so your best bet to catch your husband is to see what his pattern is for going out especially in the evenings or weekends and either you and a girlfriend follow him in your girlfriends car (so he won't recognize it) or hire a detective for a couple of weeks to follow your husband and see if he really is seeing another woman.
Believe it or not men and women can be friends. I have several male friends, and no, I've never slept with any of them. My husband has a couple of very good female friends and I have them over for dinner on occasion. If you know you love each other then there should be no cause for jealousy or wondering if your husband is having an affair. Men and women have to work together in the workplace, but it doesn't always mean they are having an affair. Now, what you have to decide is why he contacted this woman, and if says he's never slept with her surprise him and say, "Well, if you are friends set up a time and have her for dinner." If he bulks at this idea then he isn't being totally honest. Good luck Marcy