If your boyfriend breaks up with you then four weeks later wants to talk and get back together what kind of questions should you ask him to see if he is serious this time around?

Answer 1

Stand strong girl and put this guy through the meat grinder so he'll learn a good lesson. He just stomped on your feelings and you should be angry about that. Anyone that just leaves a relationship without an expanation as to why is selfish! However, life is about learning so give him the benefit of the doubt that he could have made a bad mistake. Don't make it easy for him to come back and you stand your ground and let him know you aren't putting up with his nonsense. People respect other people that shoot from the hip and don't play games. Communication is everything in a relationship and without it there are just too many misunderstandings that end up in hard feelings and hurt hearts. QUESTIONS TO ASK: WHY DID YOU SPLIT-UP WITH ME: No matter what reasonings he gave you let him know loud and clear that he should grow up and he should have told you why he wanted to split-up and you won't accept anything less if you SHOULD get back together again. WHY DO YOU FEEL THIS WAY? (DEPENDING ON THE ANSWER HE GIVES) If he tells you that he was nervous about getting too serious with you or there was some other personal reason for leaving you, you tell him that's not a good enough excuse. Tell him that there isn't anything both of you couldn't work out together and that you would have been there for him if he'd given you half a chance. If he tells you he thought he cared about another girl say five very important words, "I DON'T SHARE MY MAN!" Make this concise and to the point! WHAT YOU WANT TO TELL HIM (STAND YOUR GROUND AND BE STRONG!) I'm not sure I want to get back together (make him squirm) because you had no consideration for my feelings and ran with your own feelings. You left and really hurt me and how can I ever trust you again? I AM NOT THE TYPE OF GIRL that will sit by and let this sort of behavior continue. If you have a problem in our relationship then be mature and come talk to me about it. After you have made yourself clear and depending on what he says to you, then it's up to you as to whether you want this guy back. NEVER let anyone walk all over your feelings and if you feel he's the type of guy that only thinks of himself then kick him to the curb and move on. There are a lot of nice guys out there. If you think he is the type of guy that was confused, afraid or nervous, then he could be a keeper. Good luck hon Marcy