I'm not sure it's abuse, but it is very wrong. And a sign that he has serious trust issues. He should really get some help. That is not heathly for a person to do. And it is illegal for him to break into your house. You should fix this problem before you start planning to get married. You may need some couples counseling too.
Would you break into someone's house to find out if they were cheating? His behaviour is strange, controlling and violent. Are you sure you want to marry someone like that? I would be scared if someone did that to me.
Think long and hard before you say "I do".
Breaking and entering is a crime. All crime has victims and, therefore, all criminal acts are abusive.
The motivation - why the criminal commits the crime - is usually immaterial. But, in this case, it only makes it worse:
Your boyfriend committed a crime (abused and victimzed you) because he wants to control you and possess you - another abusive type of conduct.
Run for your Life!!! He has not only committed a crime - He is well on his way to trying to control you which is just one part of ABUSE. Escape NOW -before any legal, marital entanglements or CHILDREN are involved.
Then do nothing and be glad he is no longer your boyfriend.
Yes....yes he is!
Be over him
No they broke up because Mercdes's old boyfriend found out she was cheating on him and she felt really really bad.
He probably broke up with you because he was cheating on you with your friend. Then he showed up with your friend.
Spencer is Teddy's ex-boyfriend. They dated, but then broke up after Teddy found out Spencer was cheating on her with a girl named Skyler.
Yes it is abuse, but it's also against the law so if you have a witness or can prove it have the police arrest him! This guy is dangerous so watch your back.
probably because he wasn't brave enough to say it's over, and break your heart
people get brokenhearted because of some of the ff.: -he/she broke up with his/her boyfriend/girlfriend -you find your date cheating on you -you feel like he/she hates you etc................
If you were cheating on him then you got what you deserved. When you go with a boyfriend there is a bond and trust issue there and, if you broke that trust issue then you broke the bond and it's probably too late to rectify what you could have done. If you didn't cheat on him and he's accusing him then confront him and instead of begging for him to take you back you should be mad as hell for him accusing you of something you didn't do!
To her - no. To him - yes. It depends on who you believe. It appears that you believe him - as you say "she broke up with fiance before cheating"... if she broke up with him and met someone else then it wasn't "cheating".
You GET OUT, seriously, this guy is not worth sitting around for. Get out, get over, and do NOT get back.