Yes it is abuse, and no woman should have to put up with that disgusting langauge. I don't think there's anything loving or caring in calling a person you love. That's abuse disguised as dirty talk. If a person can't talk dirty without using such demeaning language, then there's a definite disturbing psychological issue with that person's view of women and themselves.
ANSWER
WELL IT ISN'T RIGHT AT ALL....I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT CALLS ME RUDE NAMES, PLUS EVEN WORSE THINGS, I HATE IT SO MUCH, IT HURTS ME DEEP INSIDE AND KEEP WONDERING WHY IS HE STILL WITH ME IF HE THINKS THAT OR SAYS THAT. ONE NIGHT WE WERE WORKING ON HIS CAR BECAUSE HE LIKES TO CUSTOMIZE HIS CAR, THEN HE SAID TO UNBOLT A SCREW FROM HIS EXHAUST SO I DID, THEN HE CRACKED IT AND CALLED ME NAMES :( I WALKED OFF OUT OFF HIS COURT AND WENT TO THE PARK NEAR HIS HOUSE, THEN HE COMES TO ME AND SAID TO COME BACK, I DIDN'T WANT TO GO, I NEEDED TIME ALONE, HE KEPT PUSHING ME TO COME, I WOULDN'T GO, THEN I GOT REALLY REALLY FIRED UP TO NEARLY HURT HIM, THEN I SAID ITS OVER, HIS EYES DROPPED WITH TEARS AND HE SAID NO DON'T LEAVE ME. ME AND HIM WERE THE LOUDEST PEOPLE ON THE STREET. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IM SCARED IF HE WILL ABUSE ME AGAIN, IM INLOVE WITH HIM AND DON'T WANT TO LOOSE HIM.
ANSWER:
If he calls you negative names instead of positive names then that's verbal abuse. which means he doesnt respect you. don't let any man put your self esteem low or take advantage of you. if he try to hurt you physically report him to da police or tell someone who u trust to help you. da best thing u could do is avoid him and social with positive people.
Tell him to stop and
I think so. I think this is verbal and mental abuse. Any way you look at it, it's abuse. Hope i helped. It sounds like mental abuse to me. But you know what? You can leave him! You don't have to stay and take it.
No, but if he is unsatisfied with his relationship with you, he can leave at anytime. It can be considered emotional abuse if he puts you down all the time and makes you feel worthless. If that's the case, then leave him. he isn't worth it.
Name-calling on a constant basis is abuse. Apologizing afterwards doesn't erase the facts.
well, if he hits you, or calls you names, or basically abuses you, then yes. gosh
if he calls you names like 'beautiful' 'cutie' names like that, and if he doesn't go staring at over girls aswell.
his feelings for must have changed.
Yes. If your significant other demeans you by calling you hypercritical or offensive names, that could be interpreted as emotional abuse.
I don't know! My mom hits me in my head and i swear i wanna hit her back soo bad i need to know if its abuse
One name for that is "mental cruelty". It is not legally abuse, but it is certainly emotional abuse. There is no excuse for it, and it is not likely to get better unless the two of you get some extensive counseling. If he is unwilling to get counseling, consider the future of the relationship to be pretty grim. Its verbal abuse
No, it isn't really considered abuse in the way that wife-bashing or marital rape would be, but you may want to talk to him about possible marriage counselling together, visiting a psychologist or psychotherapist for him, and even separation or divorce if these don't work. You should not just sit there and take it, as it is obvious that one or both of you are not happy with life as it is now.YES it is abuse if he calls you names and swears at you - emotional abuse. verbal abuse.being "irritated" by you in "normal" conversation is not abuse, it is his reaction to you and what you are saying. it is the actions he takes that are abusive. a person can be irritated by someone and not be abusive to them.
From your grammar I can tell you this is probably the best you'll ever do so hang onto him.