If your boyfriend calls you names in the bedroom and on the phone is that abuse?
Yes it is abuse, and no woman should have to put up with that disgusting langauge. I don't think there's anything loving or caring in calling a person you love. That's abuse disguised as dirty talk. If a person can't talk dirty without using such demeaning language, then there's a definite disturbing psychological issue with that person's view of women and themselves.
WELL IT ISN'T RIGHT AT ALL....I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT CALLS ME RUDE NAMES, PLUS EVEN WORSE THINGS, I HATE IT SO MUCH, IT HURTS ME DEEP INSIDE AND KEEP WONDERING WHY IS HE STILL WITH ME IF HE THINKS THAT OR SAYS THAT. ONE NIGHT WE WERE WORKING ON HIS CAR BECAUSE HE LIKES TO CUSTOMIZE HIS CAR, THEN HE SAID TO UNBOLT A SCREW FROM HIS EXHAUST SO I DID, THEN HE CRACKED IT AND CALLED ME NAMES :( I WALKED OFF OUT OFF HIS COURT AND WENT TO THE PARK NEAR HIS HOUSE, THEN HE COMES TO ME AND SAID TO COME BACK, I DIDN'T WANT TO GO, I NEEDED TIME ALONE, HE KEPT PUSHING ME TO COME, I WOULDN'T GO, THEN I GOT REALLY REALLY FIRED UP TO NEARLY HURT HIM, THEN I SAID ITS OVER, HIS EYES DROPPED WITH TEARS AND HE SAID NO DON'T LEAVE ME. ME AND HIM WERE THE LOUDEST PEOPLE ON THE STREET. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IM SCARED IF HE WILL ABUSE ME AGAIN, IM INLOVE WITH HIM AND DON'T WANT TO LOOSE HIM.
If he calls you negative names instead of positive names then that's verbal abuse. which means he doesnt respect you. don't let any man put your self esteem low or take advantage of you. if he try to hurt you physically report him to da police or tell someone who u trust to help you. da best thing u could do is avoid him and social with positive people.