If your boyfriend said we should take a break does that mean he still loves you?

Answer 1

Probably not, if he ever did in the first place. Young people frequently confuse infatuation, which is fleeting, with love, which is not. Are you sure he really loved you, and are you sure you really love him? Or were you both infatuated with each other? Regardless, if he wishes to go on a break, chances are good he is no longer happy with your relationship. But you need to ask him what type of break he's talking about. If he wishes a short break -- a few weeks or a month -- where the two of you do not see other people and get to reassess your feelings for each other, well, that's one thing; that may be okay. He may love you but may dislike certain aspects of the relationship, and he may need time to assess how important -- or unimportant -- those aspects are. If, on the other hand, he wishes to go on break to see other people, well, that's another kettle of fish. It would seem that you've lost his interest.

Answer 2

If he loved you with all his heart he would have explained why he wanted to take a break. Since he didn't I am sorry to say this guy wants to move on. As much as your own heart is breaking over this and you are left wondering what went wrong in the relationship don't EVER let him think he can come and go in your life whenever you want. Let him know you are independent, communicate with him and ask why he feels this way. If he refuses to talk about it then tell him that perhaps it takes two immature people to have a relationship and it's time for HIM to move on!

Answer 3

Yes, sometimes relationships need space to find the real meaning on why you wanted to be with a person. It gives you personal time with yourself, time to spend with family and friends, and time to get yourself together so you'll know what you wanna do before making any decisions that can affect your relationship.